Children Matters
Child Arrangements After Separation: The Complete 2026 Guide
April 2026
A clear guide to the legal process, practical steps and key decisions when child arrangements break down after separation.
Frequently asked questions
Do mothers automatically get custody in the UK?
No. The court applies the welfare test and does not automatically prefer one parent by gender.
Can I apply urgently without MIAM?
Yes, if a valid exemption applies such as urgency, domestic abuse evidence, or immediate safeguarding concerns.
Can orders be changed later?
Yes. If circumstances materially change, you can apply to vary existing arrangements.